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Chiar daca nu inveti, poti sa citesti.
Iata un fragment dintr-un articol care descrie experienta acestor 2 oameni, capturati de chinezi in prima lor misiune . Erau pe-atunci "in their 20s" si au iesit" in their 40s". Ultima fraza, in care unul dintre ei sustine ca "... had he been released after only five years, he would have come out in far worse shape than he did after 20 years", mi-a dat de gindit ...
Iata un fragment dintr-un articol care descrie experienta acestor 2 oameni, capturati de chinezi in prima lor misiune . Erau pe-atunci "in their 20s" si au iesit" in their 40s". Ultima fraza, in care unul dintre ei sustine ca "... had he been released after only five years, he would have come out in far worse shape than he did after 20 years", mi-a dat de gindit ...
"Shot down on their first operational mission, Downey and Fecteau spent 20 years decades in Chinese prisons. There may be some among us who can imagine 20 days in captivity; perhaps a fraction of those can imagine a full year deprived of liberty and most human contact.
But 20 years? Downey and Fecteau have consistently sought to downplay their period of imprisonment; and neither has done what arguably too many former CIA officers do these days with far less justification: write a book. Downey has said that such a book would contain “500 blank pages,” and Fecteau says the whole experience could be summed up by the word “boring.”
Insights from Captivity
Even if Downey and Fecteau do not consider their long captivity suitable for literary treatment, there is great value for today’s intelligence officers in how they played the bad hand dealt to them. The men’s reflections on their imprisonment—generally made shortly after their release, when impressions were freshest—provide a series of “lessons learned” that could be relevant to others facing long captivity.
Never Give Up Hope.
Scale Down Expectations.
Create a Routine. The Chinese occasionally allowed them periodicals like the New Yorker (i-auzi !) and Sports Illustrated. In addition, prayer and Bible study, as well as learning Chinese and Russian, composed a big part of Downey’s day.
Get Physical.
Keep a Secret Space for Yourself.
Remember that a Brain Cannot be Washed.
Care for Each Other. Even through the years of solitary confinement, each man drew comfort from the thought of his nearby comrade. When Fecteau was told of his impending release, his first question was whether Downey would be coming out, too. After release, Fecteau spurned lucrative offers to tell his story publicly because of the impact it might have on Downey’s fate. To this day, the men remain close friends.
Find Humor Where You Can.
Find Humor Where You Can.
Be Patient. Because of insufficient training, both men acknowledged it took several years to develop effective coping strategies. At the beginning, each thought he was going crazy. Fecteau says he started to have “mental aberrations”: “The walls started moving in on me. I would put my foot out in front of me and measure the distance to be sure the wall wasn’t really moving.” Downey, besides being “extremely scared,” was frustrated to the point of despair, seeing every day in prison as a day robbed from him. As the men learned how to deal with their fate, it became easier. Fecteau did not have a vivid imagination at first, but he developed one as a skill. Downey maintained that, had he been released after only five years, he would have come out in far worse shape than he did after 20 years. "
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4 comments:
Hello Seherezada !
Imagineza-ti ca am avut rabdarea sa citesc materialul tau (mmm ... prin ce surse mai calatoresti...), si daca nu te superi dau un pic cu parerea. Dar mai scurt ca-s obosit si ma culc in curand.
Pai baietii astia au fost la odihna si tratament in China. Cei din State, oameni liberi, umblau lesinati dupa job-uri, aveau ingrijorari pentru familii, ce mai - stress pe paine. Unde mai pui ca au pierdut crizele Beatles si Flower Power, au scapat de droguri.
Ca sa nu ma gandesc la gulagurile rusesti, ospiciile de unde n-a mai iesit nici un zdravan sa povestesca, puscariile romanesti. Ei, si cand am ajuns la formularea "this tragic story",n-am mai putut si "m-am ras", dar stii, asa ... cu blandete.
Tacticile lor psihice se vede ca au fost bune, i-au ajutat. Au invatat si ei cate ceva, cum invatam cu totii.
Imi vin in minte niste indemnuri (sau tactici daca vrei), de la un batran ascet, care mi-au placut si le am la inima:
Sa nu crezi tot ce auzi.
Sa nu faci tot ce poti.
Sa nu spui tot ce stii.
Interpretarea e libera. Noapte buna.
zau, briel, dar nu trebuie sa-ti pierzi timpul citind toate prostiile postate de mine ...
mi-a atras atentia fraza unuia "... had he been released after only five years, he would have come out in far worse shape than he did after 20 years", ... stiu ca are dreptate.
briel, sa-mi explici o data, cind nu vei fi obosit (buna dimineatza, by the way ...), de ce pentru unii nu e suficient sa-si exprime admiratia, de ex. fatza de un batrin ascet, ... de ce mai trebuie sa si tzintuiasca "down", si sa "se rida" de niste tineri care au imbatrinit intr-o inchisoare chinezeasca (un fel de sanatoriu zici tu, ... )
multe intimplari arata ca povetele si invataturile pot origina si dintr-o celula de temnitza in acelasi fel ca dint-o chilie monahala ...
nu recitarea lor e importanta ...
PS. Briel, oare se pune ceva in cornflake'sul canadian ?
ca eu am cu multi de-acolo o relatie aparte, care ma tzine alerta ...
printessa, cu tine chiar si o discutie in contradictoriu este agreabila. Daca vrei sa fii asa de draguta, ai putintica rabdare cu mine, ca trecerea mea este meteorica, cel putin eu asa sper. Pe moment sunt intr-o faza exteriorizanta, ceva ce nu-mi sta in fire.
Chiar ca nu de cei doi prizonieri am ras, ci de autorul americanoid care a facut prezentarea. Putin mai sus de "this tragic story" explicase cum la intoarcere i-au asteptat niste salarii cumulate in cei 20 de ani. Desigur, timpul nu s-a putut da inapoi ...
Si apoi cu oarece teama, ma asteptam sa citesc despre torturi, picaturi chinezesti, ... , ceva... Slava cerului, oamenii s-au intors sanatosi, cu un psihic bun si au innodat cum au putut vietile lor, se pare ca binisor.
Mie mi-a atras atentia sotia unuia dintre ei, care zice ca s-a rugat pentru el in toti acesti ani si culmea, s-au recasatorit ! Cine stie daca puterea lui nu a venit si din dragostea ei.
Sa fii iubita, prinzessa. bye
PS Ai auzit ca s-a inventat aspartanul si Splenda, pentru sanatatea noastra ?
Cred ca baga si in fulgi.
"Sa fii iubita, prinzessa. bye
PS Ai auzit ca s-a inventat aspartanul si Splenda, pentru sanatatea noastra ?"
sa-ti spun drept, eu sint pentru o cantitate moderata de otrava numita zahar alb, asa cum l-am cunoscut de pe vremea bunicii ... Nimic nu ma va face sa pun inlocuitori sau zahar maroniu in cafelutza mea !
cit despre urarea pe care mi-o tot repeti, "sa fii iubita !" ,
cum te stiu mare amator de intrebari dichotomice de soiul "ce e mai important, eruditia sau intelepciunea ? ... binecuvintarea sau blestemul ?",
ma grabesc sa-ti raspund la una pe care nu ai apucat sa mi-o pui:
afla ca,... consider mult mai important sa iubesti, decit sa fii iubit si, culmea plus paradoxal, e si mai usor ...
bye bye, vizitator meteoric ...
kipin taci.
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